Wednesday, September 23, 2015

The Philippines (Part One)

11 years ago, Drew served his mission in the Philippines. Ever since we first got married we have said we should go back there for our 10th anniversary. We went back and forth a few times about whether or not we were actually going to make it happen, but ultimately we made the big trip. Drew's mom and dad went with us since they hadn't gotten to go pick him up like they had planned at the end of his mission. They are more experienced travelers so it was nice to have their help, and it was fun just to have their company. We were gone for ten days including a full day of traveling on each end. We left our kids with my parents. Haley and Brian had them at their house for a few days while my mom made a quick trip to Utah for a cousin's wedding, and Nick and Alyssa and Ashley helped out a ton too I know. Haley and Brian had their two boys plus our three kids for church one Sunday, which was just plain rude of me I've decided. I am so so beyond grateful for my family that took that on, and for the fantastic way they took care of our kids. We really had a fantastic trip that we will remember forever, but I missed my babies too much and decided I will not be leaving my kids for that long again unless they are quite a bit older. Parks eventually warmed back up to me, but now he has a special place in his heart for my mom, Haley, and Alyssa who were his other mamas while I was away.

My favorite part of the trip was watching Drew interact with the people and speak their language, which generally surprised them quite a bit. He would speak and sometimes draw a little crowd of people who wanted to hear this white guy speak their language.

For some reason the Philippines has become a hot spot for a mail-order-bride kind of situation. We saw tons of young Filipinas with white husbands, mostly a little older. After a few days I started to notice the ladies there noticing Drew. Their eyes would get big when he would walk in, and especially when he started speaking their language, and then their faces would fall when I walked up next to him. A man at church even asked Neil if Drew was married, and seemed bummed when he told him I was his wife. That was an...interesting part of the trip

We flew for around 15 hours each way with a layover in Toyko. It was fun to get that little taste of Japan on top of our experience in the Philippines. My knees killed me from being stuck in those seats on the plane for that long, and I am swearing off that long of a flight for a while. 

I took hundreds of pictures, so it will be really tricky to narrow it down to my favorites. I am going to break this up into a few different posts.
 This was what I got of Tokyo. A view out the window of our shuttle bus at the airport.

 
We attempted to use chopsticks in Tokyo. The food at that restaurant was delicious!


Becky and I tried to get a little nap during our layover.

 We got to the Philippines around midnight and Drew immediately started haggling about prices for everything. I would have just paid whatever because I wouldn't have known any better. I'm pretty sure he saved us a lot of money. We got to our hotel and got a few hours of sleep. The next morning we got up and had the hotel's continental breakfast (which was the beginning of the end in the food department for me) and headed off to find a trike.

 Drew thought this would be an awesome authentic experience for us, and it didn't disappoint. Here he is haggling and sorting out directions with the driver.

 Becky and I squished inside, Neil sat on the back, and Drew rode side-saddle behind the driver on the motorcycle.

 We were headed to Susing's Guitar shop. Drew bought a guitar there when he was on his mission, and wanted to show us how they did it. He was surprised at how different it was. Apparently they had done very well for themselves over those eleven years and everything was newer and fancier.

 But they still did everything by hand. It was really amazing to watch.



 This was the lineup of the guys carving the guitars. One man was pushing one end of the wood he was holding into his bare foot while he carved the other end with a chisel. It seemed like something that would kill my foot. This trip really confirmed for me how much of a wimp I am.

 
 Some of the awesome guitars in the showroom.



 Back on the trike, this was the view down the road.

 We went back to the hotel to grab our stuff and jumped in cabs that gave us our first taste of the awesome driving over there. People just make things work there, and there's lot of honking (not out of anger how it is in the US) going on all the time. Our taxi driver took us over to pier to catch our jet boat that would took us from Cebu island to Bohol island. The boat ride was two hours, and this was where I discovered the A/C problem. It is pretty rare to have air conditioning there at all, but when they do have it they turn it way up and it's freezing! That was such a cold two hours for me.

 Since I had eaten very little at that questionable breakfast that morning I was pretty excited about the dried mangos on the boat.

 We eventually got our rental car (which was hard to come by) at the pier on Bohol and Drew got to experience driving in the Philippines first hand, and the rest of us got to experience him figuring that out. Drew and Becky had really made all the arrangements for this trip, so I was really surprised and impressed when we got to our resort. It was so beautiful.

 The view from the back of the resort


 It was so crazy what kinds of houses and buildings were just right beside us.

 The beach behind the resort



 We ate at the resort restaurant that night, and I thought I would be safe with salmon, mashed potatoes, and vegetables. I was wrong. Whatever kind of butter they have in the Philippines was really hard for me to stomach and things were generally pretty oily.

 On the other hand, I'm pretty sure Drew liked everything he ate.

 We had such a beautiful view from our table.

 The next morning was my birthday. I was really happy to get to start it off with the awesome breakfast buffet at our resort. I was so happy to see plenty of American options, and the guys were happy to get to try lots of different food from around the world. Neil tried that dried fish for his first breakfast there and said it wasn't too bad. I'm not convinced. Also, they are really into eggs sunny side up which I had never had before, and which I would be happy never to have again.

 Drew said I was in charge of choosing the activities for the day since it was my birthday. The only thing I was really wishing for was to swim at the base of a waterfall (I'm not exactly sure why, but that's something I've always wanted to do.) Drew also suggested swimming in a cave and I was up for that so we headed off for the day's adventures. On our drive we got to see more of how the people live there. They are such hard-working, happy people.

 We had a guide take us down into the cave to swim. He knew exactly what to do with my camera to get some cool shots in there which I was really happy about, because I still don't really know how to work it in the dark. It was pretty awesome in there!


 
 The water was the perfect temperature, but Becky and I were a little too nervous to go too far back in the cave where it was pretty dark. Neil and Drew explored back there a little though.

 After swimming in the cave it was time for lunch. Becky has eaten at different McDonalds restaurants around the world, and it's part of her traveling ritual so we made that happen. I was happy to have some familiar food.

 They had the normal stuff, but they also had fried chicken and spaghetti on the menu which is what we saw most people eating there.

 There were so many trikes around in the middle of the city. One of the laws there is that the trikes have to have a bible verse on the back of them. I wish I had gotten pictures of those.

 There are also motorcycles everywhere there. We saw lots of families riding a motorcycle together. I saw a few families of five, and lots of young mom's with brand new babies riding on the back of a motorcycle. Since I am kind of a car seat/safety hater, this made me really happy.

 I wish I had gotten better pictures, especially of the little girls, but we saw kids walking to and from school all over the place every day. They all wear uniforms.

 We started noticing the houses like this around, and Drew told us they were made from banana leaves that were woven together. 

 On the way to the waterfall we stopped to take pictures on this road that I thought was pretty.

 This was just a tree with something weird growing on it.

 We headed down these stairs for a little hike to the waterfall.







 We stopped again on the way back, and got a better picture of Drew and me.

 We stopped at this little fruit stand on our way back. I was excited about the mangos. We also tried that fuzzy looking fruit in the front of the picture. You split it open and the fruit inside looks like the inside of a grape.

 There were some people selling some interesting drinks near the fruit stand and Neil tried this green drink. It was some kind of coconut juice with green jello in it.


 Drew had some calamansi juice.

 Back to the resort



 After dinner, Drew and I headed down to the beach with the tripod to grant my other birthday wish. Jumping pictures by the ocean. Haha.



 Birthday cake number one (not that great so I only had a few bites and we went to get something else)

 Birthday cake number two. Mmm mmm.

Thursday, September 10, 2015

Happy Birthday Luke!

I freaked out for a second a couple days ago when I realized it was about to be Luke's birthday and I had really forgotten about this little project. I was pretty relieved that I had remembered a couple days before his birthday instead of a couple days after.

5 things about Luke:

1. He is a fantastic dad. I have loved watching Luke with is kids. I have been around enough people who aren't really kid people to know what a sweet gift it is for a child to have adults who like having them around, and who know how to interact with them. Luke is great with his kids, my kids, and any other kids he is around.

2. Basically, in my mind, there is no one in the world who is a better athlete. I am six(ish) years younger than Luke and grew up watching him dominate in any sport he tried in school. I was always proud to tell people in our community or the surrounding schools that my last name was Jenne, because it was generally associated with Luke Jenne and his athletic prowess. Unfortunately, for some reason having the same last name didn't automatically mean I was the best athlete at any sport I tried. Somehow his life has taken him other directions, but I'm still pretty sure he could go pro if he wanted to. :)

3. It seems to me like Luke is more level headed and even-tempered than I could ever dream of being. He has dealt with his fair share of ups and downs in his life. I have never noticed things going to his head through the ups, and I think his spirit has remained unbroken through the downs. I remember a time in high school when my parents couldn't find him early one morning (which I believe was starting to make them nervous if I remember right) but after a little while he came walking through the front door. He was facing some kind of issue, and had gone for a long run to think, or clear his head, or just to do something productive when he couldn't sleep. I never really knew what his reasoning was, but I remember thinking I probably would have just screamed and cried instead...much less effective. I honestly have never seen him lose his temper. He seems to be able to be steady and to think clearly. I admire that about him so much.

4. Luke's nickname on our family website for a long time was "Sarcasmo." Maybe the reason he doesn't get too worked up about anything, is because he doesn't take life too seriously. He can always keep things light and fun.

5. I have been so impressed as I have watched my brothers' and sisters' develop their faith and testimonies. I have seen Luke become a gospel scholar. I have been impressed by the way he studies the scriptures with his kids. Through his comments in our conversations and in the few Sunday school classes we have been in together, is it obvious that the gospel and his family are his top priorities. I am so grateful to his example and influence in my life!

Happy birthday Luke! It is so fun to get to see more of you these days! Oh, and sorry about any typos you may have found. I know those will really drive you crazy. :)

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Ezra's 4th Birthday

 Ezra turned four a few weeks ago. His birthday is exactly two weeks after Darcy's, and once she has her's it is hard for Ezra to wait for his turn. That waiting seems to make him even more thrilled when the day finally comes though. We had a fantastic day celebrating our big boys day.
 Once again, the water bottle is a huge hit! :)

 Every boy needs a basketball hoop I think.

 Ezra loves to help me in the kitchen. We only have girly aprons around, so I decided it was time to get him an apron fit for a manly chef (which came with a cool hat).


 We spotted some awesome Seahawks jerseys at TJMaxx that we thought our boys needed. We got one for Ezra for his birthday and Parks one just because.

 Ezra's birthday wish was to go swimming at Grandma Jo's with Matthew. Wish granted.

 Not long after we got to the pool, Drew drove up much to our surprise! He had told us he had meetings all day, but it turned out he was able to send someone in his place so he could come make Ezra's day extra special for him . We were all pretty excited that he got to join us.



 Ashley, Darcy, Ezra, and Matthew decided to go run through the sprinkler. I'm pretty sure the tiny sprinklers in our back yard will be a disappointment from now on.

 Grandma Becky got Ezra his first Lego set and helped him put some of it together. He is still using it almost every day. Darcy loves it too actually, and Parks like to eat the pieces.

 
 Ezra asked for a Dusty cake which freaked me out. My reputation is not awesome in the cake department and that seemed like a daunting task. I found some ideas online and with a little convincing Ezra agreed to have a cake like this.

Haley advised me to make Ezra's birthday cake the night before. She had had a couple bad experiences spending the whole birthday working on the cake. I think that was fantastic advise and I think I'll try to do that from now on. The one problem was that my kids got to it a few times and I even bumped it a couple times before we actually ate it. I was glad I had taken that other picture the night before because it was looking a little bit sad by the time Ezra blew out his candles. Next time I'll have to put it up high.